We’ve been married for 49 years. Trust me, we were very young when we got married. I’ve noticed as we’ve aged, we aren’t always “hearing” each other correctly. Of course, I often speak to my husband while my head is stuck in the front-load washer as I load dirty clothes. He tends to be in the kitchen and I’m on the other side of the house. Then we wonder why our wires often get crossed and sometimes even feelings hurt.