We can’t ‘outgive’ God —  but it’s fun to try!

One of my missionary friends in Africa posted this short excerpt from Katharine Hepburn’s book, “Everything Good in the World” and I had to share it with you. It still brings tears to my eyes, each time I read it. We just can’t out-give God and even if we could —  the joy that giving brings to us is the best shot of vitamins a person could ask for.

Katharine Hepburn, in her own words: 

Once when I was a teenager, my father and I were standing in line to buy tickets for the circus.

Finally, there was only one other family between us and the ticket counter. This family made a big impression on me.

There were eight children, all probably under the age of 12. The way they were dressed, you could tell they didn't have a lot of money, but their clothes were neat and clean.

The children were well-behaved, all of them standing in line, two-by-two behind their parents, holding hands. They were excitedly jabbering about the clowns, animals, and all the acts they would be seeing that night. By their  excitement you could sense they had never been to the circus before. It would be a highlight of their lives.

The father and mother were at the head of the pack standing proud as could be. The mother was holding her husband's hand, looking up at him as if to say, "You're my knight in shining armor." He was smiling and enjoying seeing  his family happy.

The ticket lady asked the man how many tickets he wanted? He proudly responded, "I'd like to buy  eight children's tickets and two adult tickets, so I can take my family to the circus." The ticket lady stated the price.

The man's wife let go of his hand, her head dropped, the man's lip began to quiver. Then he leaned a little closer and asked, "How much did you say?" The ticket lady again stated the price.

The man didn't have enough money. How was he supposed to turn and tell his eight kids that he didn't have enough money to take them to the circus?

Seeing what was going on, my dad reached into his pocket, pulled out a $20 bill, and then dropped it on the ground. (We were not wealthy in any sense of the word!) My father bent down, picked up the $20 bill, tapped the man on the shoulder and said, "Excuse me, sir, this fell out of your pocket."

The man understood what was going on. He wasn't begging for a handout but certainly appreciated the help in a desperate, heartbreaking and embarrassing situation.

He looked straight into my dad's eyes, took my dad's hand in both of his, squeezed tightly onto the $20 bill, and with his lip quivering and a tear streaming down his cheek, he replied; "Thank you, thank you, sir. This really means a lot to me and my family."

My father and I went back to our car and drove home. The $20 that my dad gave away is what we were going to buy our own tickets with.

Although we didn't get to see the circus that night, we both felt a joy inside us that was far greater than seeing the circus could ever provide.

That day I learned the value to give.

The giver is bigger than the receiver. If you want to be large, larger than life, learn to give. Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get —  only with what you are expecting to give —  which is everything.

The importance of giving, blessing others can never be over emphasized because there's always joy in giving.  Learn to make someone happy by acts of giving.”

See what I mean? Can you imagine the heart of that father and his gratefulness to Mr. Hepburn? And the joy that resided in the hearts of Katharine and her dad. It really is so much fun to be on the giving side of life. 

A photo popped up recently of some Filipino children who received a Rowdy Raccoon book from me in the Philippines. The joy on their faces was precious. I was told many had probably never owned their own book before —  and a book in English was an additional blessing.

We received a blessing last week. Someone returned some money to us that we weren’t expecting at all. The amount was $5 more than our weekly faith promise commitment, and it came with a plastic container of warm chocolate chip cookies. Am I going to return their dish empty? Of course not. The little girl of that family is going to get some animal cookies! 

Giving to someone else doesn’t have to be extravagant. Ask God to give you an idea of what would be a blessing … and He will come through with what you need to give, and what they need to receive.